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SNSD Got A Boy

In Everyday,Fandom,Life,Music,Personal on April 9, 2014 by lexie-chan Tagged: , , , , , , , , ,

And so it seems like the beginning of the year wasn’t very great for SNSD and a lot of SONEs out there. What, with the horrible promotion period for Mr. Mr. and the outing of some members with regards to their relationships… And honestly I cannot blame people for being hurt and betrayed.

(But imma concentrate more on the revelation of the girls’ relationship for this post.)


To me, it was really a shocking news and even I had a moment of pure bewilderment. It was a feeling like setting your own daughter to get married. Like a knock on reality that they’ve grown up. But that’s as much as there is when it comes to their relationship. At the bottom of it all, I am just soooooo happy that despite their busy schedule and insane work environment, they found love in a hopeless place.


That’s why it was incredibly heartbreaking to see people who left the fandom and spewed hurtful comments to the girls (and their boyfriends. even going as far as leaving absurd messages on the member’s personal accounts. that’s why I wouldn’t blame YoonA and Tiffany if they didn’t get a public social media network despite the girls who signed up already. after all, they might be the very people who might get the most hate. so sad…)

It’s… how can people say all those things and make the girls so sad on the one thing that makes them happy?

I don’t get it.

I really don’t.

It’s like┬átheir heads were hanging on a flower decorated rope around their necks. And just one comment, just one, would be enough to push the chair beneath their feet… towards their own end.

That was a bit too dramatic but I hope you get the picture.


I know it’s something that is still hard to wrap your head around, especially for all those people who ship them with their fellow girls whatnot (I’m looking at you TaeNy shippers who just go overboard). But, I hope you do not take it against the girls and blame them for your own broken heart. Don’t make them feel like they do not deserve to be happy this way. I don’t know how else to explain this but leave their private lives alone.

They will not live for your sake but for their own. Because at the bottom of it all, their lives belong to them.

It will be hard, incredibly hard, but I hope eventually, each and one of you will learn to accept that another chapter in the girls’ lives are being written. They want nothing but to make everybody happy — including themselves.

And like this comment:


I hope that we continue to believe in them, to support them. What better way to express just how much we love the girls, right? I would like to apologize though if I have offended anybody and if it seemed like I was shoving my beliefs down your throat but you know, it’s not so bad to hope for the best for all of us so yeah… :3




At least these girls know how to pick cute guys so kudos to y’all~